I’m feeling really good about being in the present, that’s been one of my goals. To be more “Gestaltish”
Next is to focus on me.
Random: I must have been a good friend because I see all the things they seem to ignore. But I’ll just mind my own business. I’m damned if I do or damned if I don’t. I refuse to be in a relationship that is not reciprocated. People love to take but hardly give. So take it elsewhere, I’m not valued in those relationships.